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How To Make Sure She’s The One For You ?

Have you ever wondered whether your current lover is the right one for you? You may have been together with her for quite sometimes. You love her and you feel very comfortable with her and you want to spend the rest of your life together with her, but is she the right one for you? There are so many signs that will indicate if your girlfriend really cares about you, and here are some that could show you that she’s the one for you:

  1. She looks into your eyes when you talk. This is all about the body language. If she looks into your eyes when you talk, you know she is paying full attention to you. This is a sign that she wants to know what you are really thinking.
  2. She wants to know more about you. If your girlfriend asks about your past, your dreams, your wants, your needs, how you do you feel, what you love, or anything about you that relates to your thoughts, you can be very sure that she wants what is best for you. This is a very good sign that she loves you.
  3. She loves you completely, even with your flaws, and you never doubt it. 
  4. She will do anything for you. When a woman is really in love with you, she will show it even with the little thing you may never imagine before. She’ll do it to show you that she’s truly in      love with you.
  5. She can comfort you when you have a bad day. This one is the most important indicator of a relationship that will stand the rest of time. If you feel you can automatically turn to her when ‘times are tough’, and she is able to give you comfort and help you to feel better, not worse, you have a girl who really loves you and you can rely on her.
  6. She makes you laugh and enjoy life. You always look forward to spending time with her, because you know you will have fun. Being able to laugh together and have fun is part of every good relationship. If she cannot share the joy of life with you easily, she won’t be able to cope with the hard times that will inevitably come your way too. Even in the difficult times, she somehow can make you smile. This is because she loves you and want to make you happy. 
  7. She loves spending time with you. She treats you as her bestfriend. She can be very happy spending time with just the two of you, and doesn’t have to have other people around all the time. She makes excuses to see you, and just enjoy being around you. She tells you her own thoughts, dreams, everything and is able to share ideas with you comfortably. She also turns to you when she is sad, or needs comfort too.
  8. The most important, her existences makes you a better person, no matter what you do she believes in you and always support you.

Romantic Anniversary Ideas

Whether you’re still in a fresh relationship, or has been thriving for decades, planning a romantic anniversary can sometimes be a daunting task. An anniversary celebration doesn’t need to be lavish or costly, and can be memorable with little investment and just a tiny bit of thought and planning.

  • Go-Out Take the day off from work or take a weekend and plan a hike or walk together through a natural area near your city. 
  • Make Dinner Take time in learning how to create a memorable dinner for your anniversary. Your partner will appreciate that you went through the effort to feed her, and with just a few simple tricks from youtube, you might find that you’re actually a better cook than you thought.
  • City Tour Choose few places in your city (or new city) that your partner might find exciting and take her on an anniversary adventure.
  • Photography Date  Spend your anniversary visiting some of the places you’ve been with your sweetie, taking pictures of each other along the way. Commemorate your special anniversary by combining these photographs into an album, or have a few printed and framed in honor of your years together.
  • A Homey Night Sometimes there’s nothing more romantic than just spending your anniversary together at home. Turn off your phones and computers, pick a Netflix movie, or spend the evening sorting through the year’s photographs. An evening at home can be a meaningful and inexpensive way to reconnect and celebrate a special anniversary. 
  • Find Activities Visiting hobby clubs or take some classes can be an exciting and romantic way to enjoy an anniversary together. If you live in a large city, you can easily find an evening activity, cooking classes, tickets to a show and many more.
  • Flowers Delivery or Sending Gifts If your anniversary falls on a workday and you are unable to take yourself away from the office, send her flowers as a reminder of your anniversary. Besides from flowers, you can ask a messenger to deliver your gift or love letters from your hand writing, or you can actually send them by post, that’s very classic!  

Ways To Confess Your Love

Sometimes, telling someone that you love them isn’t an easy step to take. After all, expressing your love for someone is also a commitment that you’d have to pledge. It could be stressful and risky when you come to think about what will happen next. If you’re sure about your feeling that it is love, we support you to collect your courage and tell her about how you feel, no matter how she will reply at least you’ve done your part.  Here are few ways to tell your special someone that you’re in love with them.  

  1. During a date, find an opportunity to sit next to each other. Make sure it’s just the two of you and the environment around you is romantic enough then sit close and prepare yourself for a confession. There is no need of a whisper it in their ears, just say it out gently and make eye contact to show that you are serious. If the situation goes well, you may kiss her cheek softly and flash your cutest smile. 
  2. Call her up a day earlier and say that you have something important to tell and feel really shy to talk about. If she asks whether it can be discussed over the phone, just hold the thought and push the plans for the next day. 
  3. If you know that you really cannot say it out on your own, try to write a letter. Think of a few lines and start writing. Later, the words will follow and end the note with “I love you…”.  
  4. Give a greeting card. Pick a perfect card that expresses your feelings and the next time both of you meet on a date, find a quiet moment to give the card or slip it into your date’s bag. Sometimes, a beautiful card can make quite a deep impression. 
  5. Send a gift. Pick a romantic gift for your date, be it a box of chocolates, flowers, or anything else that you know your date would love. And within the gift, add a small note which says “I love you”.  
  6. Make it a surprise with customized idea. You may want to consult her friends to find out what she may fancies about and make it happen, be the prince charming for her fairy tale!

Adorable Things Men Do

Here are some of the things men do that us,women, really adore.

  • Planning is amazing When a man plans, it's almost as exciting as him proposing. Whether he organizes a date, a weekend trip, an afternoon walk, anything, we're happy. It shows us that you're capable of putting effort into us and you like it. Actually, you really, really like it.
  • Being a great listener Showing a woman that you're a great listener is so incredible. Remembering things that we mentioned we like is so cool. Whether it's flowers, a book, chocolates or jewelry, if you surprise us with it, we feel really special!
  • Show us some vulnerability It's extraordinary when a man can openly and honestly talk about his feelings with you. When he's comfortable doing so, it's great. It's so great it's like winning the emotional lottery.
  • Cook for us When a man knows his way around the kitchen and is capable and confident, it's so cute.. Cooking takes patience and shows us that you're cherish-worthy.
  • Let's go shopping Let's face it, sports are a popular hobby for most men. Well, shopping is a favorite pastime of many women. Shopping is to women what sports is to men. Shopping may not be good for women's wallets (or their man's!), and it certainly isn't cardio, but it absolutely is fun. When a man can shop with you and give his opinion, he's golden.
  • It's okay to be nerdy When he gets all geeked out and excited about something he's reading and he's not ashamed of it, it's pretty adorable.
  • Compromise is key When a man does something for us that he wouldn't ordinarily want to do, it makes our hearts melt. Being sweet and thoughtful always goes a long way. We so appreciate you doing something you're not eager to do.
  • Get all sporty It's nice to see men fired up and passionate about sports. In fact, it's oddly exciting. When your eyes light up, you become quite desirable.
  • Kiss and caress us Being affectionate and sweet to us goes a long way. When you're sweet to us, whether you put your arm around us when we're not expecting it, hold our hand just because, or give us an excited kiss for no reason, our hearts skip a beat.
  • Love our family Some people have an unusual family. But, your family is your family and so you love them a lot. When your man gets in close with your family and makes all family members love him, he's extra fabulous.

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How To Propose Your Girlfriend?

Already found someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with? Congratulation! If you’re sure that she’s the one, this is the time to prepare how do you want to propose her. Remember that the most important thing is that your proposal comes from your heart and you tell her exactly what she means to you. If you're unsure how to go about it, here are some things to consider when proposing to your girlfriend. 

  • Find out what she wants Browse a traditional/modern online jewelry stores to get a feel for what’s out there. Then, think about what suits her personality and what kind of other jewelry she likes or you can ask her best friends/relatives about her engagement ring preference. · 
  • Figure out her ring size There are a few options for determining this. Take a ring she wears on her ring finger to the jewelry store or ask a trusted mutual friend to find out for you. If you still can’t figure out to ask her friends/relatives, take a guess, choose the bigger size, and get it resized after you pop the question. Or find a store that offer the size-change service. · 
  • Buy the ring and hide your tracks Store the ring in a safe place where she’d never go looking.  
  • Clue in her parents Live nearby? See if you can drop by their house or take them to lunch (or dinner, if spending a night with your future in-laws isn’t too much torture). Live far away? A phone call will do. After exchanging the prerequisite pleasantries, cut to the chase: You love their daughter and you’ll be asking her to marry you. 
  • Pick a proposal spot A place that’s meaningful to you, whether it’s where you met, the site of your first date or your go-to Saturday night spot. It’s not only a great location because of its sentimental value, but more importantly you'll also know what to expect there. Or you can also consider a getaway trip oversea to make a destination proposal · 
  • Choose between a conservative kneel down or a unique surprising proposal After you’ve selected the proposal spot, you can choose whether you will bring her there, kneel down and ask the question or you want to add more details to build up the feeling to the peak, make it a unique proposal moment that will be cherished forever. 
  • Decide what you’ll say It doesn’t need to be like a novel, but choose a few basic things to share. Such as why you love her, why you want to spend the rest of your life with her and how you’ll feel if she accepts the proposal. No matter what, don’t forget to ask her to marry you, multiple times if necessary. 
  • Get down on one knee It’s a romantic gesture to which women are entitled only once in a lifetime. So, take her hand while you ask your question. 
  • Have a Plan A, B, C Make sure you have backup plans for as many reasonable scenarios as you can think of. For example, what’ll need to change if your girlfriend’s running late? What if she doesn’t feel like going where you suggested? What if she or you get sick? As anxious as you may be to get engaged, postponing your proposal can sometimes be your best option. 
  • Have it on record Every girls dream of getting married and once she has been asked, she wants to share this happy moment to her family and friends and want to keep the feeling in her most remembered memory. Arrange for a photographer or videographer to record your proposal moment is something will you not regret.